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doodles23

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Posted on Feb 21, 2007

you all i need some help i am 16 and i am dating this guy that is 25 i really like him but he says he wants to get married.....but i tell him my mom knows we are dating but really she don't she wouldn't let me and he wants me to get pregant what should i do????
~!~Cassandra & Brandon~!~


Dirty_Dan
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Posted on Feb 21, 2007

im sorry, but you sholuld not be dating a 25 year old, thinking of getting married, or getting pregnant.

you are way too young. and im not trying to put you down. im not much older. but you still have a life to live, you have school, hopefully college, a carreer ahead of you. if you get married and have a baby, those commitments are going to make it so hard.

you should get out of that relationship fast. date someone your own age.

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aznamy17

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Posted on Feb 21, 2007

i agree..plus he probably just wants to get in your pants
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doodles23

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Posted on Feb 22, 2007

yeah..i know that's what i think but i just can't tell him...you know what i mean i don't wanna hurt him cause he's said he kill his self and he already cut his-self cause i tried to break up with him.....
~!~Cassandra & Brandon~!~


Dirty_Dan
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Posted on Feb 22, 2007

do what you want. but your life is going to suck if you dont get rid of him. 
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aznamy17

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Posted on Feb 22, 2007

If hes cutting himself..thats another reason you should leave him...kill himself?..another plus...psycho..plus if they are brave enough to hurt themselves what makes you think they won't hurt you?
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Dirty_Dan
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Posted on Feb 22, 2007

cutting has nothing to do with violence. it isnt linked to abuse at all. cutting is because they are scared not brave, they are punishing themselves. however, he might just be using that to make you feel guilty.
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doodles23

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Posted on Feb 23, 2007

yeah i should end it now but how should i tell him i should just say sorry it's over im to young plus ur CRAZY
~!~Cassandra & Brandon~!~


brey_kissler

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Posted on Feb 23, 2007

     I think you should domp him be for you git hurt....
BUT BE CAERFUL....

O-Henry
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Posted on Feb 24, 2007

he might not take no from you, so you should tell your mom & let her break it off for you. 
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Dirty_Dan
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Posted on Feb 24, 2007

yeah its probably not best to do face to face. any other situation i would suggest it. but with this i would say, a voicemail, or an email, or a letter, or as henry said having someone else like your mom do it for you. someone you could trust tho. do something personal, bot not as personal as face to face.
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Flirty_Fun

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Posted on Feb 25, 2007

I agree with everyone else..and especailly about not doing it face to face. He might try something. If he thinks hes ready to get married..have kids? Imagine what would happen if he got abusive! He might rape you or something! SO be carefull! Gah, dating older is fine..but 8-9 yrs older..nooo!!! lol  WAIT!! she said that she told dude that she told her mom, but she didn't.. so we can scratch the part about having her mom do it unless she feels like gettin caught now and gettin grounded for the rest of her life..which would suck on her part..   a best friend maybe? well no..what if he tries something on her/him too...  gah! lol confusing

[Edited by Flirty_Fun on 2/25/2007 at 8:56 AM]

O-Henry
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Posted on Feb 25, 2007

i don't think her mom would ground her lol, I think if she said to her mom 'can you please break up with my 25 year old boyfriend who wants to get married', the mom would be like 'my pleasure, where did i put my gun'.
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doodles23

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Posted on Feb 26, 2007

yeaha my mom wants me to be happy so she don't say nuttin but for god sake i'm not happy..lol....so yeah i think i'll call the lozer my self and tell him then block his #
~!~Cassandra & Brandon~!~


Rock_Fox

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Posted on Mar 15, 2007

   Good to hear that everyone has a good head on their shoulders in this thread (with the exception of pyscho older boyfriend). All the suggestions are excellent and I would suggest (as you seem to be leaning towards) following up on them. That being said, make sure you stick close to your friends afterwards and things, don't stay out too late without company or whatever.
 
    It sounds paranoid, but really there have been a lot of cases where these individuals decide to deal with the situation criminally after the break up. Live your life, have fun, be safe...but stay alert. Cool? Cool.

HOTDADDA

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Posted on Mar 30, 2007

FOR ONCE ILL AGREE WITH MOST EVERYONE STAY AWAY MY GF HAD A PROBLEM LIKE THAT WITH HER LAST BF I FELT LIKE KICKEN HIS ASS ALL OVER  BUT IM NICE SO I DIDNT BUT LISTEN TO THEM HERE SOME OF THEM ARE SMART

mestephanieme

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Posted on Mar 31, 2007

^ SEE WE ARENT ALL BAD! YOU ADMITTED IT YOURSELF
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Sad_Klown

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Posted on Apr 14, 2007


dan is right i mean wut if u get aids and die just think how would ur family and friends would feel

sixteen_12
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Posted on Apr 14, 2007

Posted by mestephanieme
^ SEE WE ARENT ALL BAD! YOU ADMITTED IT YOURSELF


I like it better when you're bad though.
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toddm
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Posted on Apr 16, 2007

Posted by Sad_Klown

dan is right i mean wut if u get aids and die just think how would ur family and friends would feel
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Ride_Switch352

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Posted on Apr 16, 2007

he's 25 and your 16, i think there is a law on that. Find someone closer to your age.
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K2thrasher

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Posted on Apr 16, 2007

Buttt ever guy here will agree with me that you will fuck a 25 year old girl if she was hot
I know i would
Like c'mon

atntheskater

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Posted on Apr 16, 2007

in canada thats legal!
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K2thrasher

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Posted on Apr 17, 2007

DAmn straight it is
thats why i love canada

VIE_VEE

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Posted on Apr 18, 2007

well ive been in that place before and its not a comfortable position.but you really like him and that will be hard you just need to tell him he is a little to seriouse with you b/c your young and i do agree with everyone here if people \are saying the same advice ill take it but if your not sure tell him your not ready and if he pushes throw him out like a trash bag on wed you know have to hurry and throw it out before it starts the stink up ur house
 

[Edited by VIE_VEE on 4/18/2007 at 7:57 PM]

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